Romance is in the details—and if your wedding vision includes soft blush tones, candlelit dinners, and delicate lace that floats in the breeze, then this one’s for you, hopeless romantic.

Whether you're getting married in a rose-filled vineyard in Stellenbosch, a charming courtyard in Harare, or under the stars at a boutique lodge in Lusaka, these 7 romantic décor elements will help you create a wedding that feels like a love letter brought to life.

1. 🕯️ Candlelight Everywhere (Yes, Everywhere)

From the moment guests arrive, you want to set the tone—and nothing whispers “romance” louder than flickering candlelight. Think:

Floating candles in glass bowls

Taper candles in antique gold holders

Clusters of pillar candles down the aisle

Lanterns and fairy lights woven into your tablescape

🔥 PMW TIP: Use Plan My Wedding’s vendor tool to find candle rental pros and décor stylists who can layer light like a pro.

2. 🌸 Blush & Soft Neutrals as Your Colour Palette

Blush pink, dusty rose, ivory, soft greys, and peach—these hues say “elegance” without trying too hard. Mix with pops of sage or gold for warmth.

Bridesmaid dresses in mismatched blush tones

Rose-toned florals paired with eucalyptus or baby’s breath

Linen napkins, stationery, and seat signage in pastel tones

🎨 Want a personalised palette? Our digital wedding planner lets you play with colour combos before committing.

3. 🕊️ Lace Details (It’s Not Just for the Dress)

Lace = timeless romance. But it doesn’t stop at the gown.

Lace runners on long wooden tables

Sheer lace drapes behind your sweetheart table

Invitations wrapped in lace ribbon

Lace parasols for the bridal party

💡 Local touch: Look for Zimbabwean or South African lace producers who craft handmade pieces for weddings.

4. 💐 Overflowing Florals (Like, Everywhere)

Flowers and romance are BFFs. Go for layered, abundant florals in a mix of textures and tones:

Garden roses, peonies, lisianthus, and orchids

Cascading bouquets and floral runners

Rose petal aisles and flower-adorned arches

🌿 Bonus: Dried florals + fresh = dreamy budget-friendly texture.

5. ✨ Romantic Lighting & Draping

Lighting can literally transform a space.

Fairy lights in trees, across ceilings or wrapped around poles

Chiffon or voile draping with soft uplighting in amber or rose

Chandeliers in the bush or hung under a tent canopy

⛺ Outdoor wedding? Combine festoon lights with ceiling draping for instant intimacy.

6. 🎻 Soft Sounds & Sentimental Moments

Romance isn’t just visual—it’s felt. Curate a mood that makes your guests feel like they’re inside a slow dance:

Live acoustic music or violinist during the ceremony

Private vows exchanged at sunset

A handwritten love letter exchange before the aisle moment

🎶 Pro tip: You can add your vow writing to your PMW checklist so you’re not doing it in the Uber.

7. 💞 Intimate Tablescapes & Soft Seating

You want your reception to feel like an elevated dinner party—with all the feels.

Round tables with velvet or soft linens

Personalised name tags and handwritten notes

Lounge nooks with blush couches, ottomans & coffee tables

Table names inspired by your love story (first kiss, first trip, favourite song)

🍾 Bonus Romantic Detail: A sweetheart table surrounded by candles with his-and-hers cocktails and a mini grazing board.

🕯️ Wrap It Up with Love

Romantic weddings aren’t about perfection—they’re about connection. These 7 elements help you build a vibe that feels intentional, warm, and utterly in love.

Whether you go full soft glam or keep it minimal with a romantic twist, remember: romance is in the experience, not the price tag.

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